The Secret Of What Every Woman Wants From Their Husband
Last week we revealed the secret of what men really want from their wives, and we had a fantastic response. So let’s talk about the other side of that same coin. What do our wives really want from their men?
Is it true that their deepest desire that we put our socks in the hamper? Or help them with the kids? Clean the kitchen or do the dishes? Maybe if we talk to them a little more, that’ll do the trick… for real, right?
What is it that makes a woman satisfied? I’m not convinced that women know the answer to that question but It’s what every man wants to know and I believe what every woman wants their man to figure out…. But the question is…. can he?
If only we could get inside the head of women and discover “the secret” that could remedy all of our “dripping faucet” woes. (I say that lovingly ladies).
Although, if we could climb into their heads, I’m near certain we’d get lost in the wave of emotional chaos that exists and non-stop chatter. But, we’d still do it if we thought for one second we could find the magic key that unlocks our woman’s happiness and turns off everything else!
They even made a movie starring Mel Gibson on the subject called: “What Women Want”, a comedic story about a man who was suddenly given the ability to hear women’s thoughts. Of course, the movie focused around advertising and propagating products to women and not the core of what makes them truly happy.
As husbands, we don’t want to deceive women into buying a product that only provides temporary satisfaction; no, we want to give our wives and significant others the real deal, endless happiness with a side of joy. It truly is our desire to make and keep you happy ladies… all joking aside.
So, guys, what’s the magic bullet?
What is the key to her happiness and ultimately ours?
What I’m about to share with you has the potential to turn off the dripping faucet of an unhappy wife and possibly create a happy environment in your home. As I told the ladies last week, do not take this power lightly, it is one that can make forever not only bearable but actually enjoyable.
So, what do women really want from us?
My friend, your wife, my wife and every woman in the universe wants their man to affirm her in every way. Affirm! What does that mean in real terms?
It means everyday reminding her how beautiful she is to you; women are the most self conscience, self denigrating creatures to every roam the earth. You don’t believe me… the next time your wife asks you if she looks fat in that dress, go ahead and tell her she does and see what her reaction is, I dare you!
She wants to know that she’s beautiful to you and it’s your responsibility to make sure she knows it. I don’t care if all you’re attracted to are her boobs, you’d better be telling her she’s hot! That is if you want her to be happy.
The truth is she should be the most beautiful woman in the world to you because that’s what it means to love her. It’s putting on permanent beer goggles and seeing her beauty, inside and out, all the time!
As far as I’m concerned I don’t have to fake my attraction to my wife, I authentically believe she’s the most beautiful woman in the world. She reminds me of the beauty of Abraham’s wife Sarah, and I’m thankful to God that he blessed me with her. I don’t care what anyone else thinks about her, I think she’s gorgeous and that’s that!
The other major way that I affirm my wife is to constantly remind her how much I love her. I think I tell her how much I love her, I’d probably guess 10 to 15 times a day. I don’t know how many exactly, but I do know it’s enough to make my children queasy, and strangers notice.
But, it’s not just the words that make the difference; it’s the smallest of actions that make for billboard size messages. For example, I’ve gotten into the habit of opening the door for my wife wherever we go; which not only projects respect for her, but subtly tells her how important she is to me.
After twenty-one years of marriage, when we walk together, I hold her hand or we walk arm in arm. I give the occasional ‘out of the blue’ kiss and most importantly a genuine smile, which tells her without saying a word… “You make me happy, baby!”
These are the things that I do for my wife, but, not every woman is the same, BUT every woman has the same desire to have the affirmation, love and respect of her man! And, I believe that if we choose affirmation over derision, love over anger and peace over chaos; we’d see miracles happening in our families; children growing up in stable, structured environments that produce future healthy, happy adults and more examples of what it truly means to be happily married.
Which, in the end, is just a better way of life! Period!
Side Note: My wife and I wrote our first book several years ago called “Forever Newlyweds”; I hope you’ll check it out!